You know it's not love when........

"Awww......really!!! I lv you too"
"nah..uh i lv u more hun"
"But i lv u the "most" darl ;)"
"ya ryt, wat a lie!! my lv is gr8r dan urs"
"No mine is"
blah blah blah *aaachooo (sorry a bit allergic to...BULLSHIT) Xdd

So does the above mentioned pattern hit a bell somewhere in your head?? (most likely huh :/ )
Let me ask you this brothers and sisters.
Is she the reason you're online 24/7?
 Every time you receive a message, you secretly wish it was his,don't you?
Whether or not you check your notifications, you go into his account and double check his.
You add her in your close friends so you can check all her comments and likes.
Every time you update or upload anything, the only thing in your mind was him. 
An hour in class seems never ending, but days texting her flies away.
You add a girl onto your list 'just' coz' he commented something under a random girls pic.
You feel jealous whenever she mentions a name of any other guy, PS-even Justin Beiber ! 
You poke him just so that you know he has been online when you receive the "poke back" 
You feel cheated when she adds new guys on her list.

The way you ignore his/her message, just to teach him/her lesson!!
Not liking each others activities but visibly showing your presence even by constant change of profile pictures.

And what more even deactivating accounts...

You really think this is love?!?!?!?!

I bet most of us or at least the ones with brains would totally disagree!!

You must understand that true love is all about compromising with each other, respecting them and being able love them in spite of there little mistakes.To advice them if they are wrong instead insulting them. Above, all it's all about keeping it HALAL ;) (you know what i mean =)

But if your love is filled with heart breaks and tears then know that person doesn't deserve you!! But if you make up then thumbs up.;) At the same time you should understand that constant alternating break ups and make ups doesn't count!!
This Is because having a fight and then changing your cover photo like the one shown below doesn't change anything at all. I know it's hard to swallow, but sorry truth is supposed to be bitter !! : /

Finally, a small piece of advice don't fall into cunning traps of Satan because once you realize the truth it's gonna hurt, trust me you would not like all the  freaking pain.
It's said in the Qur'an

51:49

And of all things We created two mates; perhaps you will remember.

Don't worry, there is definitely some one created just for you ;) Keep away from Haraam stuff and  wait patiently coz' Allah knows what to give you and when =) And if you still want to persist then good luck :P 

But remember one day if you find yourself crying it wasn't his/her fault, it is YOURS!!! because now it's you taking advises for granted ;)

PS- Love happens, it cannot be brought about by force. Don't give anyone a chance to play with your feelings, even if you meant all what you say, there is no guarantee that the other person is not fake, For only Allah knows what's in the heart.

The answer :

You know it's not love when "it's depicted by a symbol and a number - <3 "
l0VE NOT equal to <3, it has a greater meaning if you but know =D

I'm not an expert but am smart enough to have patience till my prince charming comes to me :PP LOL jk xDD i mean who on earth wants to be among the regrets!

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4 things that refresh my hope!!

Assalamulaikum Warahmathullahi wabarakathuhu!!! =DDD
So this blog is going to be very brief in comparison to the others and i'm going to share 4 things that always refresh my hope and when i say always i mean "ALWAYS!!!" =DD

No matter how much of efforts we put in order to compromise with the different struggles we face in life, at some point or the other, someone who could be anyone is definitely going to spoil your life in a variety of ways!!!
Let's face it, we've got no option but to face it, Sometimes we face it bravely like a soldier and show that  you are strong enough to withstand random stupid problems people try to push you into. BUT..at certain times the problem becomes so intense that you tend to get depressed and fall back in life. It might either be because you cannot find a solution for your problem or it might me because you are in a lot worse situation than Rebecca Black was when she saw the car seats!!! =p lol

I do agree that sometimes matters can get extremely hard, and at times fate would take you to such a situation where you find death pleasing than living one more day and adding to the scars in your already 'several times re-fixed poor little tiny heart" !!! And this IS the time when your conscience keep yelling at you saying "It's all your fault, so you gotto' pay for it!" :/ You know  you HAVE to be strong, but then the BIG question arises.............HOW????

And i'll tell you how =) All what you gotto' do is refresh your hope ;)
 i know it isn't as easy as right clicking on your mouse button and clicking on refresh because your computer or laptop or whatever has HARD-disk while you have a HEART!!! (get the difference .lol)
1st you need to realize that whoever brought you to such a situation is definitely gonna pay for it!!! (But that doesn't mean you go and take revenge and call it a lesson ;) :P ) I mean common everyone's heard of the saying "What goes around comes around" now haven't we !
Just stay patience and tell yourself 'they can get stuff their way in this world but in the hereafter and especially on Qiyama  when everything will be brought forward you are gonna rock to the core baby!! =DD Allah knows best!
So here's what you need to do to overcome your freaking depression:
1.Take a deep breath
2.Reassure yourself that Allah is the best and that His word is THE WORD that everyone needs at all times.
3.Digest what you are going read below ;)

          “Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear…” (Qur’an, 2:286).

         "Verily, With Hardship Comes Ease" (Surah al-Sharh,94)

"If Allah wants to do good to somebody, He afflicts him with trials."

[Sahih Bukhari: Volume 7, Book 70, Number 548] So finally,  "Nay,seek (Allah's help with patient perseverance and prayer it is indeed hard,except to those who are humble."  (2:45) May Allah increase our Thaqwa and strengthen our Imaan!! Ameen!! Also check out: http://www.youtube.com/user/MissModeratez?feature=mhee http://www.facebook.com/pages/MissModeratez/378750048851676

          

Lost and Found!!!

Assalamulaikum warahma thullahi wabarakathuhu =DD

So guys today i thought of sharing a brief story with you'll or more like an incident that happened in my life recently that taught me something very important!! =)

THIS IS WHAT HAPPENED...(hope you enjoy ;) 

About a week ago, 2 of my close friends and i planned to go on an outing ( the kind of thing everyone wants to have after a long stressful period filled with exams )

So the night before our outing we spent about 2 hours ( or more i suppose ;) ] planning about our “MINI-ADVENTURE” from tip to toe.

According to the plan one of my friends had to come over to my place, then both of us had to get together and go to our other friend's place and do the ever-arduous task of according to a girl- SHOPPING!!! (what did you think washing pots and pans? :P )

At last we FINALLY kept the phone, and tried hard to fall asleep as couldn’t wait till the sun rises for the next day.

Initially everything happened according to our plan except for the TIMINGS of course, where my friend who was supposed be at my place at 10:00 AM came only at 1:00 PM. Also, when we left my place around 4:00 PM although we were determined to stick to our time schedule which said 1:30 PM. =pp

 Somehow we managed to get a three-wheeler to go to our friend’s place at last, whilst hoping against hope that it should not rain as the sky started to darken. Then, all of a sudden bum, krr, bershh. Creeekkkk ………tik..tik.tik…teekkk….. OMG!!!! NOOO!! we are attacked by zombies!!!!! At least that’s what we thought, but then we realized that it was in fact our vehicle’s engine.

“Don’t tell me!!!” I said under my breath while the three-wheel driver informed us that the engine was faulting unexpectedly and that he would have to get a mechanic. He told us to stay in the three-wheeler while he brings a nearby mechanic. So, without counter-arguing we stayed back and waited….and waited…and waited…..and waited…… trying to ignore the phone calls from our friend who was screaming at us for not making it on time (-_-)

We almost screamed in rejoice at the sight of the driver with the mechanic from the far end of the street BUT then that excitement and happiness was short-lived. As they brought someone else along with them….. MR.RAIN-MAN!! ( sounds ILLUMINATIsh, huh =p)

With no other option we were forced to go back home..  =( GOD WAS TRULY UPTO SOMETHING BUT… WHY US?!?!?! =’(

 We were heart-broken when all of our plans drowned like the Titanic. But then at the end of the day we thought, ‘maybe we planned too much’ I mean everyone has heard of the saying too much of anything is good for nothing. Right? Anyway, we at least wanted to sound positive.

 Very soon we were sending messages about another plan although we weren’t that excited as we were before. At first there was a big confusion as to when we were going whether it was the next day –Friday or if it was Sunday. What so ever none of were really doing any proper planning as we didn’t want another disaster. As usual I went and told my mum, to ask if she and dad were fine with it. And as far I remember that’s all I did.

That night my parents bought 3 tops for me and my friends. I must say I was not expecting that under any cost. I called my friends informed them about the tops and said that my parents were fine with tomorrow. Then we slept, woke up the next day and then all what I could think of was HAVING FUN THAT WE DID NOT PLAN.

Here are some pictures we took!!

 The tops my parents

 got us!!!

We were not disappointed by buying

the happy meal as we got an cute toy!!

    What so ever let's not forget the moral of the story:

In case you don't get something you desire, just don't despair because whether you agree or not it's seriously not going to change anything. And remember, it may be because Allah(SWT) has something way-better in store for you!! It's like you cry for a Cinderella doll but instead God gives you a ticket for a trip to Disney land!! ;) Take my story for an example, Don't forget this world is just a test!!! 

It's up to you whether to cry like a loser or take it bravely like a soldier! =D

The prophet (SAL) said: "No fatigue,nor disease,nor sorrow,nor sadness,nor hurt,nor distress befalls a Muslim,even if it were the prick he receives from a throne,but that Allah expiates some of his sins for that." [Bukhari]

Always ask dua from Allah(SWT) for it is in his hands our fate lies.

"And seek help through patience and prayer, and indeed, it is difficult except for the humbly submissive [to Allah ]" (2:45)

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I'm no quitter!!!

Bismillah
Assalamu Alaikum Warahmathullahi Wabarakathuhu or simply PEACE!!! =D

Everyone has different perspectives about life and the way each one of us might face a problem may differ, however at one point or the other we  all unanimously agree upon something..that is.....................
"SHIT HAPPENS!!!"
I mean, it's obvious we can't expect everything to happen our way, now can we?!?!
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!
And why the hell is it that way?!?! xDD
common now, We all know that this life is nothing but a trial, right??? ;)


It is mentioned in Al-Bukhari  that Prophet(sal) said:
“Be in this world as though you were a stranger or a traveler/wayfarer.” 
Ibn ‘Umar used to say: 
“When evening comes, do not expect (to live till) morning, and when morning comes, do not expect (to live till) evening. Take from your health (a preparation) for your illness, and from your life for your death.”


The hadith mentioned above alone is a clear indication of the little value that is attached to this world. We should always bear in mind that this world is nothing but a temporary platform that Allah(SWT) has created and placed His warriors on it so that He may see which one us are His true servants.


Therefore, when  life gives you its worst,rise up with all what you've got and show nothing can put you down because you know that whatever happens to you it is in fact with the will of the Supreme Being.
Actually i would like to share one of my favorite hadith:
The Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) said to Ibn Abbas:

"If the whole nation were to gather together to benefit you they would only benefit you with that which Allah had already written you and if the whole nation were to gather to harm you they could only harm you with that which Allah had already written to harm you. The pen has been lifted and the ink has dried"


so let us pray that Allah(SWT) show us the sirathul musthakeem (straight path) and ease our path to Jannah or should i say Jannathul Firdosa ;)Ameen!! =DD
And know Allah is the Most Powerful... AND REMEMBER!!!

so when ever you are having difficulties just pray to Allah(SWT) because only He is capable of making a change.
 Allah said in the Qur'an:
"verily with hardship comes ease"(surah 94)
and 
"And verily the hereafter will be better for you than the present" (surah 93)




bearing all these in mind let us begin our preparation for the BEST MONTH IN THE YEAR-RAMADHAN!!! =DDD


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